#46 POSITIVE THINKING

Obstajajo ljudje, ki vedno razmišljajo pozitivno in obstaja druga skupina, ki pogosto vse vidi negativno. Sama sebe žal precej pogosto najdem v tej drugi skupini. To ni dobro ne zame niti za ljudi okrog mene. Osebe z večinoma negativnim razmišljanjem, si predstavljajo težave tam, kjer jih ni ali pa si predstavljajo težave večje, kot so v resnici. Pogosto vidijo negativne razplete situacij.  Po poslušanju nekaj TEDx govorov sem prišla tudi do spoznanja, da je veliko težje spremeniti negativno mišljenje v pozitivnega kot obratno. Obstaja pa rešitev. Če vsak dan razmislimo ali še bolje zapišemo dogodke, ki so se nam zdeli dobri in smo hvaležni za njih, lahko spremenimo svoje mišljenje in postanemo bolj pozitivni. Razlika je samo v tem ali gledamo na svet skozi črna očala ali pa raje posežemo po roza. Želim ti lep dan in ne pozabi biti pozitiven, saj dobro privlači dobro.

// There are people who always think positive and there is another group of people, who often sees things negative. Unfortunately, I find myself quite often in the second group.  This is not good for me nor for people around me. People with mainly negative thinking, see problems anywhere and imagine problems bigger than they really are. They often see negative disentanglement of the situation.  After listening to a few TEDx Talks I realize it is much harder to change negative thinking into the positive than vice versa. But there is a solution. If we think about or even better to write down events every day, which we see as positive and we are grateful for them, we can change our thinking and become more positive. The difference is only in this whether  we are looking at the world through black glasses or pink one. Have a nice day and don't forget to be positive, because good attract good. 

#25 THINK, PLAY, DREAM, FEEL, LOVE, LIVE …

Opravljaj vse to in še več. Razmišljaj izven danih okvirjev, poglobi se v tok misli, pluj z njimi. Igraj se z življenjem, zavedaj se, da ga vodiš sam. Sanjaj o stvareh, ki si jih želiš, saj si s sanjami že korak bližje. Čuti sebe, čuti okolico, bodi v ravnovesju. Ljubi vse kar te obdaja, saj se ti bo ljubezen vračala. Živi svoje življenje in si upaj. Sprejmi sebe in druge, takšne kot so.

// Do all this and even more. Think outside the box,get lost in your flow, go with it. Play with life, be conscious that it is in your hands. Dream about things you wish, because with dreams you are already one step closer. Feel yourself, feel the surroundings, be balanced. Love everything around you, because love will return. Live your life and dare. Accept yourself and others just the way they are. 

#8 JUST A LITTLE GRATITUDE

Ljudje imamo veliko napak. Mislim, da so se te napake v nas oblikovale skozi čas in niso prisotne že od vsega začetka. Ena izmed napak je zagotovo tudi negativnost in pomanjkanje hvaležnosti. Hvaležni smo lahko za življenje, ki ga imamo. Marsikdo izmed nas bi lahko bil hvaležen. Izogibati se moramo razmišljanja, kaj vse nam manjka in bi radi imeli. Če pomisliš bolje, na ta način pogosto razmišljamo predvsem okrog materialnih dobrin. Hvaležni smo lahko za čudovito naravo, kjer živimo, za dogodke, ki so se nam zgodili v življenju. Verjamem, da so se marsikomu zgodile stvari, za katere bi na prvi pogled z gotovostjo lahko trdili, da smo za to težko hvaležni. Navadno pa kasneje pridemo do spoznanja, da so tudi nekoliko bolj negativni dogodki pravzaprav pozitivno vplivali na naše življenje. Spremenili smo se sami, prišli do kakšnega pomembnega spoznanja ali pa na sploh zaživeli boljše in bolj polno življenje. Zanimivo pa je tudi to, da ko se zaveš hvaležnosti, odrineš stran negativne misli. Vsi bi potrebovali več pozitivnega mišljenja in več hvaležnosti za vsakdanje malenkosti.

// People have a lot of mistakes. I believe, that all those mistakes develop in us through time and are not there from the very beginning. One of those is certainly negativity and lack of gratitude. We should have gratitude for the life we have. Many of us should be thankfulness. We should avoid thinking about what we don't have and what we want to have. We often think in that way about material goods. We can be grateful for the beautiful nature that we live in, for the events that have happened in our life. I believe that each of us at some point went through some events that at first sight didn't seem very positive but we should be grateful for them. We often become aware of those negative events later on, discovering that they were actually positive. We have changed ourselves, came to some important cognition or just started to live better and a more fulfilling life. What is interesting is that when you start to be conscious about gratitude, you stop being so negative. We all need to be more positive thinking and more thankfulness for everyday trifles.

#6 MORNING THOUGHTS

Zgodnje jutro, zeleni čaj in razmišljanje. Verjamem, da vsi predstavljamo eno, smo skupaj eno, hkrati pa je vsak posameznik sam zase. Vsakdo izmed nas mora narediti spremembo pri sebi, da bo dobro za vse skupaj. Pot do spremembe sta za začetek ljubezen in veselje, ki ju čutimo sami in ju oddajamo ljudem, ki nas obkrožajo. Zagotovo ostali to tudi začutijo. Prvo je torej potreben premik pri sebi, sledi premik pri drugih. Ljubezen do sebe in drugih je zelo širok pojem. Ni mišljen zgolj v ozkem pomenu, v smislu ljubezni med dvema zaljubljencema ali med ožjimi družinskimi člani. Ljubezen je lahko mnogo širša. Ljubezen je, ko se ob pozdravu drugemu iskreno nasmehnemo, ljubezen je, da smo pošteni in iskreni tako do sebe kot do drugih, ljubezen je, da ravnamo v skladu z naravo, da se zavedamo, da bo to zagotovo tudi prostor življenja naših zanamcev in je pomembno, kakšnega jim prepustimo, je ljubezen do vseh živih bitij, ne samo ljudi in najbolj prisrčnih hišnih ljubljenčkov ipd. Vsakdo je tu z namenom, ki ga mora poiskati sam in ga poskusiti uresničiti. Morda ni vedno lahko in se na začetku nekajkrat zmotiš. Nič zato, ne smemo obupati. In namen zagotovo ni škodljiv ne za nas same, ne za druge, ni kapitalistično usmerjen in ni nemogoč. Krog se tako sklene, več ljubezni in veselja, ki oddajamo, več ju prejemamo. To je zanimiv zakon narave, ki vedno deluje.

// Early morning, green tea and thinking. I believe that we all (together) are one, but at the same time each of us is a unique entity. Each of us should first change him/herself so that it will be good for all other people. The path to change lays in love and hapiness, which we feel ourselfs and consequently we spread this two feelings among people around us. For sure others feel this also. So, firstly you need to change yourself, and then others will follow. Love to yourself and the love to others is not the same thing. It is not meant like love between two lovers or love between close family members. Love can be a much wider thing. Love is when we smile to others when we greet him/her, love is that we are honest and sincere to ourself and others, love is when we act in harmony with the nature, being counscious that the nature will be a place to live for our descendants and it is important in what condition we leave this place, love is also love for all living creatures, not only people and the cutest pets that we have and so on. Everyone is here with some purpose, which it has to be found and tried to be realized. The path of finding and realizing is not always easy. And you can also make mistakes at the begining. But the important thing is that you never give up. And of course our own purpose is not harmful for ourselfs, neither for others and is certainly not capitalistic oriented and also not imposible. The circle is closed. The more love and hapiness that we transmit, the more love and hapiness we get. This is an interesting law of nature which always works.